As the start of each year I add up my kids’ ages and tabulate my Cumulative Parenting Experience. This year, my CPE is 74. I think this is a better indication of my parenting experience, (or as I call it, Time Served) than saying I’ve been a mother for 23 years.
I’ve have four 2-year-olds, four 3-year-old, etc., so I want credit for those experiences. I earned it in Barney songs and Pokemon movies and Girl Scout cookie booths.
Last year was special since my youngest child, one of my daughters, became a teen. She was completely pleased to be all grown up, as she considered it, but I had some reservations. Her being my fourth teenager, I new the steps to this dance already.
While not all the teenage years are easy, there are some special rewards I embrace. Like having someone else to share the driving on a long trip, not ever having to wipe up whatever gross stuff comes out of them, and having people taller than me to reach the high shelves in the kitchen. My youngest has three inches on me, at least, so she’s an official top-shelf reacher.
Sometimes when people see me with all my kids, they’ll say, “Better you than me.” Absolutely, if that’s their attitude to having a lot of teens. My kids, and I think most teens in general, have a lot of great things going on.
My kids are all kind, well mannered, thoughtful people. They are great employees, good students, and concerned with what’s happening in the wider world. There’s so much right with kids today.
It’s always hard to change from a child from an adult. I think one of the things a teen needs is affirmation from her parents. Being a safe person for them to talk to keeps you solidly an active participant in their lives. You’re more likely to know what’s going on in their heads and in their hearts.
October is National Medicine Abuse Awareness Month. I’m working with CHPA to bring you information about their Stop Medicine Abuse Campaign. Did you know OTC medicine abuse by teen is kind of a big deal? Kids are taking OTC cough syrup containing Dextromethorphan (DMX) to get high. When I was in high school, it was called robo-ing.
What You Need to Know About Medicine Abuse
Approximately 1 in 25 teens reports abusing excessive amounts of DXM to get high. One in 3 knows someone who has abused cough medicine to get high.
What is DXM?
Dextromethorphan (DXM) is a safe and effective ingredient found in many over-the-counter (OTC) cough medicines. When abused, DXM can cause side effects including vomiting, stomach pain, mild distortions of color and sound, hallucinations, and loss of motor control.
What Can You Do to Prevent OTC Medicine Abuse?
Talking with your child is the best defense. Research shows that kids who learn about the dangers of drug use from their parents are fifty percent less likely to abuse drugs. So, talk with your kids in a real way, listen to what they say is going on at school and with their friends, and be aware of the slang of med abuse. DXM is often referred to as skittling, tussin, robo-tripping, CCC, triple Cs, and dexing.
Other Signs of Drug Abuse/OTC Medicine Abuse
Be aware so you can identify warning signs of abuse:
- Empty cough medicine bottles/boxes in the trash of your child’s room, backpack, or school locker
- Loss of interest in hobbies or favorite activities
- Changes in friends, physical appearance, sleeping, or eating patterns
- Declining grades
Participate in the Conversation
How to Participate
Visit to ToMyTeen.com and answer one of our questions about raising teens and tweens today
Write down your answer on a large piece of paper
Take a photo holding up your answer
Upload it to the site
Share your images on Twitter or Facebook and include the hashtag #ToMyTeen. Invite and encourage your friends and family to join the campaign
In addition, the Stop Medicine Abuse campaign will randomly pick 5 winners at the end of the month to win a $50 VISA gift card. Good luck!
You are such an awesome mom! Your kids are beautiful, well rounded and thoughtful people. They get it from their mama!
I think they are pretty cool people. I think I’ll keep them.