I’m a nerd and proud of it. My first crush was on Han Solo. I hurried home from school to watch the good Star Trek. I pined for a Space 1999 lunch box. I watched Galactica 1980. In that last case, sometimes love makes you suffer.
I have been lucky to marry another nerd. We agree that the 1977 George Lucas film should only be referred to as “Star Wars”, full stop. He thinks a boxed set of Lord of the Rings movies is a pretty great Christmas present. I had his wedding ring inscribed with “MAY THE FORCE BE WITH US” for our tenth anniversary.
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I smell a birthday present! |
When I was at the mall a few years ago, we had a long discussion over the phone about whether I should buy the Pottery Barn Star Wars sheets. He’d had them as a kid. My brothers had them. I’d always wanted them for my own and now they were sized for our queen-sized bed.
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Romantic, no? No. |
The budget stopped me that day. That and the fact that I am a grown woman.
Also, I don’t want to wake up at night a see Darth Vader staring at me. That is a legitimate concern!
I see they are still available at Pottery Barn. Maybe I’ll put them under the tree for my husband for Christmas. (Act like you didn’t read this, honey.)
Are you a nerd? What’s the nerdiest thing in your house right now? What’s the nerdiest thing you’ve done?

I am not a nerd, but I love that there are nerds. And I love your blog.
I'm the nerdiest thing in my house right now. Not to mention, I work in a nerd-friendly environment… for Boss's Day I gave my boss a set of Star Trek glasses. For my birthday, he gave me Doctor Who's TARDIS and a Dalek. I'm lucky to work for someone who embraces my dorkdom.
Thanks, Chloe!
Steph, you have a dream job. I want Dalek salt and pepper shakers.
We (dh & I) are both quasi-nerds. The nerdiest thing I did was to surprise him with a full LOTR themed dinner once. I guess the Tolkien History of Middle Earth books are the nerdiest things in the house right now.
LOVE the quote in the wedding ring. Priceless.
What does a LotR dinner look like? Lembas?
Did you dress up?
Somehow, my speed reading brain translated Pottery Barn Star Wars Sheets into Porn Star Sheets.
Had to do a double take. 😀
Heavens to betsy!