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Motherhood crept up on me. As a child I preferred books to dolls. As a teen I babysat a little, but didn’t seek it out. As a young women I never really thought about being a mom then or in the future.
An early marriage and two sons were as much as surprise to me as anyone who knew me. I ran into an old friend from high school after I had two little kids and the friend looked at me like I had birthed puppies.
“Huh, I thought you’d be in charge at NASA by now.” Nope, sorry. Just a mom. Sorry to disappoint you and NASA.
Though my pleasure in being a mother was serendipity—an unexpected joy.
After a divorce, I intended to focus on my sons. I contemplated the possibility that I would have no other children and therefore never have daughters. At twenty-five, I wasn’t too impressed with myself as a daughter, so I made myself believe I wouldn’t be missing much.
It’s always been important to me to be thankful for what I do have and not waste energy longing for something that’s not meant for me.
Serendipity found me again, however. I remarried (and happily—together almost twenty years now), and we had two daughters.
I don’t like to casually toss around the word “blessing.” It’s a powerful word, and saying it too much dilutes its power. But, still, my daughters have been a blessing.
They have taught me lessons in humility I didn’t even know I needed to learn. After two easy-going, chill little boy-babies, I considered myself to be A Really Good Parent. It’s so easy, don’t you know? Just clearly express what you want, and children do that. I should write parenting books! Other parents should come to me for advice! Ha!
I shot out two little beautiful monkeys who immediately bounced off the walls and started breaking things, including all my preconceived notions of parenting. Humility—I got some.
Now my sons are all grown up and don’t need my active parenting anymore. Here I am in a new phase of my half-empty nest, raising two teenage girls who are beautiful and smart and fun to be around. The high-energy of toddlerhood has transitioned into something amazing—young women who are exciting and fun to be around.
These girls are going to change the world, just like they changed mine.
I never planned for children, but they happened to me. They are my joy and my strength every day, and I am thankful.
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Carol Cassara says
I have to tell the truth; I give myself strength. That’s where my strength is rooted.
I think that’s awesome, Carol! We should all be so strong and self-sufficient.
I love this post. You are an awesome mom and it has been a joy to watch your girls grow and blossom right before our very eyes 🙂
I’m a lucky mom. The early teenage years have been a breeze compared to the toddler years, but I did have four kids under nine then. I was way outnumbered!
God gives me strength.
The love of my husband gives me strength.
My kids, whom I adore, alternately delight me and drive me to despair. But mostly they delight. Which is a good thing.
The love of faithful friends gives me strength.
So, there you have it.
I love you, man!
Grown and Flown says
Anne, such a lovely way to describe how motherhood happened to you, with a batch of boys and then, your girls. You are a source of strength to many of us through your writing and your hard work (with Sharon) in Midlife Cafe. Thanks and I look forward to reading the Andie McDowell interview. (A wonderful southern woman!)
Sisters From Another Mister says
Awwww, you and motherhood are such a perfect match. For all the jabs and quips, you just glow when talking about your brood. To watch you with your girls, the proud mama in you just makes us smile xxxx